YOUR CHILDREN, THE REFLECTION OF WHAT YOU ARE. IKKA KENPO INTERNATIONAL

Often parents of my students come to me and say; my son is aggressive, my son is insecure, my son does not obey, my son has no control or order, my son is rude to me, I ignored my son, my son all crying. I've always tried to be a support for parents in educating their children, but equally responses ask parents to children to improve, that is sometimes parents tell me; my son has not improved remains uncertain. Many parents do not even discover that your child is only a reflection of what they are.

Parents often think that life is easy for small, they only have to eat, go to school, do homework, maintain order in her room, brushing teeth, going to Karate and others, but it is not so, life a child is also difficult if you have the correct structure in their education. After some time training and classes parents have seen better every day their children in all aspects, 95% of my students had a breakthrough in their education, albeit significant, as no longer respond to breast lift their things obey, etc.

The other 5% is the most difficult, with the 5% we face we must first try to educate parents, everyone is free to how to educate their children, but we should not repent or complain later, here's a great example;

Friday combat class in our school got used to each ending combat cheering small, because that's full of joy, is a form of assent to tell who did extraordinary, based on their capabilities, a Friday I funny thing happened, my children and I were victims of technology. The parents were so busy on their cell phones that none bothered to applaud even his own son, at the end of the class talk with parents was taken and told them; -Father´s, I know many have their occupations and so on, but you believe what is easy fight? -The Parents shook their heads. Sometimes the motivation of each one of the children is their parents to see combat and at least applaud them. If they do not everyone has his reasons, but as a father requires 10 rating his son, if he did not take the time or requirement applaud after he did something that was difficult for him.

Do not demand more than what you've taught your child, if you ever think your child has a problem of attitude, apathy, aggressiveness, looks closely at the actions that you make during the day. For example; if you indicate your child that you do not respond poorly or yell or make tantrums, but you when having a confrontation with someone, either by phone or in person and explode than angry, there it is, your son is your reflection.

You can correct the actions of your children uncorrected yours, of course, you work for a while, but sooner or later this reflection of your personality appear on your children.

Father, friend, teacher invite you to reflect on this article, remember that morning all he'd stop children who are the future of our world, are tools for life, will your teaching and education.